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18
Dec

Bah Humbug! Really? Here’s why. . .

   Posted by: Tom    in Finding YIW


Note: There is also a link below for my gift to you, in case you didn’t get it yet.

Bah Humbug! Really? Here’s why. . .

gift_box I like to think that I practice being grateful. Sometimes, when things aren’t going well, I have to think about it and find grateful reasons, and I’m talking beyond positive thinking here. It’s not always easy, is it?

Thousands of people have trusted me enough to be on my list. Some of you have remained for years through stuff you may not have liked, but because you saw enough you did like, you stayed.

I am more than grateful for you, all of you, new members or long timers. Some of you are customers, some are just present and seeking new information and some of you are interactive with me.

Over the years some of you have become one-on-one clients and we’ve developed our own unique relationships. Others have written to me privately and/or on the public comments of my various blogs. I am most grateful for it all.

Why the “Bah Humbug?” title. I keep getting these corporate email Holiday Greeting notes or group “cards” from places I’m subscribed to or where I’ve purchased things from. What does that mean?

We can now send a note to everyone or selected groups on our lists with the push of a button. We can put lovely graphics on (or have our graphics department do it) and zap, everyone gets their “cards.”

I even got one “F-R-E-E Gift” notice with a nice bow and “Holiday Greetings” note. All I had to do to collect my “F-R-E-E” gift was to buy a $97 product. Hmm? How do you spell unsubscribe? I hit that button fast.

I even get “Personal” notes. Mass mailings from some guru or CEO. How is that personal? To them, and the dollars for F-R-E-E-Gift-givers, I say BAH HUMBUG!

To you, all I can say in this impersonal grouped message is thank you. I am truly grateful for your new or continued presence.

One of the reasons I’ve given away the digital versions of my book, “How To Take No For An Answer And Still Succeed,” even though many others have paid $27 for it, is that now, more than ever, it may prove very helpful for those in troubled times. It was written to help people overcome rejection in all its forms, i.e. disappointment, humiliation, and failure.

Also, for those who have the book, I’ll be announcing a deep discount on the audio book, just for you, as soon as it’s available.

The link for the book is below, impersonal though this may be.

So, my anti-bah humbug is in this full disclosure. This message was sent to you all. It’s only personal in my deep appreciation for you as a part of this group. Of course, to some of you whom I’ve come to know and who’ve taken the time to interact with me, an even deeper gratitude exists, customers and non-customers alike.

Thank you all. We’re all in this together as we try to make our worlds better places to be by increasing our unique personal powers for ourselves and our loved ones.

Merry Christmas
Happy Hanukkah
or just. . .
Happy Holidays!

More power to you,

Tom

P.S. Here’s the link for your downloadable gift:
http://budurl.com/53ur

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Saturday was to be a busy day. I had work to do on a couple of projects. So naturally I went to a movie instead. But not just any movie, one that you may thank me for recommending to you.

If you’ve subscribed to my list for long you know that I respect when that “Intuitive Click” clicks. It’s not always generated by some urgent or pressing situation. Sometimes it’s just a gentle nudge that directs our attention to something “better.”

I saw an online trailer for a film, “The Blind Side,” starring Sandra Bullock. Instantly I knew I wanted to see it. I’m not a big sports fan and this looked like a football movie. Believe me, it’s not, though the sport is central to an amazing outcome.

Anytime Hollywood makes a story they call “true,” I know how unlikely that is. Truth is usually bastardized versions of of some kernel of an event that really occurred.

But, true or not, I went. I am so glad I did.

The-Blind-Side-posterBullock stars as real-life Leigh Anne Tuohy, a wealthy white, politically conservative woman in Memphis. Though brought up by a racist father in the deep south, Tuohy became known for her philanthropy that was colorless in race conscious Memphis.

Michael Oher was hardly raised so much as he was allowed to exist in the ghettos of West Memphis. His haunted memories of being forcibly removed from his crackhead mother’s apartment to a series of foster homes followed him until he could will them into repression.

At 16, 6’4” tall and weighting well in excess of 300 pounds was an almost unbelievable sight to behold.

“The Blind Side” is how Sean and Leigh Anne Tuohy eventually found this homeless young man and how under near miraculous circumstances, raised him and nursed him into an incredible success story.

Tim McGraw plays her wealthy and understanding husband, Sean, with a good-natured self-confidence, who along with their two decent children, seem to live the idyllic life in an upscale Memphis.

After exiting the theater with a tear-stained crowd, I read a lengthy excerpt of the book, “The Blind Side: Evolution of a Game,” by Michael Lewis. But I would caution you to avoid reading this until after you see the movie.

The film seems to be true to Lewis’ documented facts, but narrowed to fit in the focused story necessary for any two-hour film.

In reading interviews with Sandra Bullock, who I think gives a terrific performance here, and other Goggles about Leigh Anne, I’m led to believe she’s authentically portrayed, which makes her a true force of nature and the story all the more compelling.

In the Lewis book he describes Michael, wonderfully portrayed by newcomer Quinton Aaron, this way, “. . .his life experience was so narrow that he might as well have spent his first 16 years inside a closet.”

Why I’m Recommending This Film To You

To discover the true life results for Michael, beyond all odds from this film and the book are thought provoking and a powerful testimony to the ability of the human being.

More than that, “The Blind Side” is about the power of the human spirit, the potential of decency, and the ability that we have all been given to effect and shift change to conditions thought by others to be unimaginable.

I’ve long been a student of not just human potential but human nature. The latter is not, in my opinion, set but optional to conscious humans at any point in their lives.

Free will is the optimal phrase here. The ability to shift one’s destiny.

The track we are on is leading us to a place certain unless we change it for the good or for the worse.

We may not see the cliff before we run off of it, but sense it. We might not know that the “City Of Gold” is just over the hill on a different path, but something tells us to change direction just in time.

The inspiration of true life stories like Michael Oher’s and Leigh Anne Tuohy’s and so many others are the excuse killers for those who find excuses not to progress beyond their circumstances.

To find inspiration is like finding gold, to be inspiring is like creating gold. I think this film will provide you with both. You’ll likely be inspired to create some of your own inspiration, if nothing else, just by recommending this film!

But forget any messages here, just see this film and love the potential there is for kindness and great inspiration that exists in this world.

So, what do you think? Please post your comments below.

Want to recommend this to others. Simple, just send them this link: http://budurl.com/d7tc

Here are three other articles you may enjoy:

“You Deserve Financial Distress”
“Want To Get Even With Someone? Try This”
The Blind Side Book Excerpt

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9
Nov

The Get Unstuck Webcast

   Posted by: Tom    in Finding YIW

Is This The Help You Need?

You feel that you’re stuck or in a downturn and are wondering, okay, what next? What do I need to do to move forward?

How do others get unstuck? Some of the most successful people I know have been some of the most “stuck” people I’ve ever known.

The difference is that as a part of their success patterns they have a system to get unstuck. They expect it to come.

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It’s amazing what we can bring out of ourselves to help others and ourselves during important moments in life.

The key to getting unstuck and helping others to do the same is as powerful as it is simple.

Happy, outgoing, and positive people are doing this all the time.

You don’t run into roadblocks unless your on the move. If you stop and wait or go back “home” when those problems confront you, you’re stuck.

The help you need is available. Readily available. I’d like to share that with you.

This Wednesday evening at 6 PM Pacific, I’m hosting a zero cost webcast for you. I want to show you some unstuck procedures you can use right away or the next time you’re stuck that activate you forward faster and with more ease.

This may be, for you, a synchronistic moment. It may be the right time with the right tool. Who knows? Feel it for yourself, right now. If it is, you can move with it and register for this zero cost webcast:

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Failure is not the problem. Quitting is.

More power to you,

Tom

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26
Oct

Proof – How You Can Use Your Intuition!

   Posted by: Tom    in Finding YIW

For Open-Minded Skeptics Only

Is It Possible That You Have Intuitive Abilities?

What If You Could Discover That Proof In 5 Minutes?

Would It Be Worth It?

In my free report, “Your Inner Wizard,” I’ll prove to you that you have intuition and in 5 minutes I’ll show you how you can call it up anytime you need it.

“Your Inner Wizard” is taken from a course That I first taught at UCLA’s Experimental College. Since then I’ve taught this technique to everyone from medical doctors to corporate executives to movie stars, investors, and just everyday people.

This is a useful tool that successful people from all walks of life have learned to use on demand.

You can:
* Manage stress
* Become more creative
* Read people – Become a human lie detector
* Have greater self-confidence
* Improve your relationships
* Make faster and better decisions
* Have greater clarity in your daily life

Thousands of people around the world have found this a valuable resource for life improvement.

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12
Oct

Are You A Wizard Or A Wuss?

   Posted by: Tom    in Finding YIW


A wizard, as my early mentor, Elaine told me, is anyone who declares themselves as such. You’re a Wizard if you say you are.

So, what’s a wizard, and how can we all be wizards? And how can we avoid being wusses?

When we recognize that there is far more power available to us from within, we become wizardly. Just the recognition of that fact can open vast new doorways to new worlds that we can explore and profit from, mentally and materially.

More on that in a moment.

A wuss, a made up word by some kids years ago, means basically a cowardly person.

But being fearful is not being cowardly. Failure to act for periods of time, that might be defined as cowardice. You may have seen my acronym for F.E.A.R. – First Evaluate According to Risk.

The challenge for some people is their endless evaluation with no action at the end. Power comes with activation. Failure may be a by-product, but it’s also a learning device.

Zig Ziglar, the famous motivational sales trainer once said, “The opposite of courage is not cowardice, it’s conformity.”

Conformity is a failure to take bold action. Not foolish, but bold. It’s also true when we conform to the mindset that is directed by the media and other generally recognized authority figures. Those power sources whom we’ve come to rely upon. Oftentimes, who, if we consider this in depth, are telling us what and how to think.

Those who wish to rise above their current station in life cannot, must not, be average. To escape this trap of majority, action will be the key. Considered action.

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Your Inner Wizard, once you begin tapping into that, will certainly help in your guidance. Through this process you can find and define the right action to take. The path to your intentions may not be a straight one, but it can certainly be the right one. Read the rest of this entry »

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